When someone offers me some unhealthy shit and I'm trying to make weight
Finally escaping the half guard only to get caught in another position
When there's no one in my weight class and someone suggests I go down to lightweight...
When you're the only female and you're trying to get a roll but the dudes are ignoring you....
When I think I'm going to tap my boyfriend, but it was all a trick to catch me somewhere else....
When someone tells me they don't like ankle locks...
When I heard someone refer to themselves as a "third degree blue belt"
When I convince someone to try spider guard and they become a believer..
When I check my phone and see BJJHQ is having rolling deals and I actually have money....
It's been far too long! Apologies, I know! I recently received the question (just in time for the holidays) "What Jiu Jitsu gear can you not live without? What's in your gym bag." Oooh this is a great question!! Where to start?
1. Kingz Navy Blue Competition Gi
I just recently bought this and I'm in love. It's pre-shrunk and after washing it stayed true to the Kingz promise- still a perfect fit! It moves like a dream and despite me initially thinking the pants were a little odd for being high (ish) waisted, it definitely holds in the love handles ;) Now, that's a plus! It can be purchased here on fighters market.
2. Fenom Hemp Belt
Okay, perhaps I'm crazy, but I swear this belt stays tied better than the others! After a roll session, there it was still perfectly tied and in place.It feels earthy, it was like opening some sort of vintage package when I removed it from the box. I expected the colors to be quite dull,but the blue was nice and vibrant. Hemp is naturally microbial so that is certainly a bonus for anyone who trains regularly. It resists much more dirt, funk and grime than common belts in addition to being eco friendly (if that is a concern of yours).
3. Forever 21 Pixel Print Spats
Never in my life did I think I would be adding a pair of forever 21 capris too my list, but never say never, I suppose. These are the first athletic spats I've purchased that are not see through, hold up well and are honestly better than my expensive pony grappling or OK! Kimono spats. They stay in place and are extremely comfortable. They're pretty cute, too! You can purchase them here.
4. Trader Joes Tea Tree Tingle.

I Had MRSA once in college, messing around with some wrestling mats and ever since then, I have been obsessed with all things tea tree. This is a cheap, fantastic product with a very high percentage of eucalyptus, tea tree and peppermint it smells great and I swear you can feel it working.
5. Conca Fight Gear Rashguards
Other than my Manto, this is by far my favorite rashguard that I have ever owned. It is a high quality, gorgeous design and moves like a dream. Conca is a company that stands for "continuous calculated action." Their goal is to design products that inspire and enable athletes to chase the dream. I'm all about the dreamers, love this product and I feel like super woman every time I put it on.
6. Korean Ginseng
Okay, this may sound a little crazy, but bare with me. I have been looking for some alternate sources of energy as I struggle with the recent revelation that I am becoming allergic to everything! Haha! While living in Korea, athletes often told me it gave them energy, aided in there recovery and was an overall performance enhancer. I didn't pay too much mind to it,but it is actually one of the most studied physical performance herbs on the planet. I felt an awesome burst of energy, not the kind I got from pre-workout but an all around sense of energy and wellness. It also aids in muscle recovery and is an inexpensive way to help boost physical performance.
What about you? What are your go to BJJ Obsessions? I'm still on the hunt for some good finger tape! Recommendations would be much appreciated!
When someone asks if I'm a guard passer or puller....
When a new guy starts coaching me through a roll.....
When I meet a new Jiu Jitsu girl and she's not friendly.....
When someone gets a fancy new rash guard for no gi...........
When you tap someone more than once during a roll......
When you get cocky and stand up, but someone gets you with the dummy sweep......
When someone is spazzing during a roll and you're just chilling, waiting for them to get tired......
When someone says "Oh wow, you don't look like you do jiu jitsu..........."
When you're injured and agree to go light with your partner and they smash you........
When your partner knows judo-that face before you hit the mat
When you're constantly paired up with the same partner........
When people ask me what I'm going to do to get down a weight class........
When someone shy is asked to make a speech after a belt promotion.........
When someone shows up to a tournament wearing the same Gi as me....
When someone does some fancy shit during a roll
When people ask me if I want to do something unrelated to BJJ....
When my De La Riva game is on point and no one can pass.....
Giving a pep talk to team mates when they lose on points......
Me on the defense with someone who always says they want to "go light" and spazzes out yet again......
My boyfriend when he teaches me something and I decide to just do it my way.....
That person you try to avoid who always asks you to roll......
As soon as we bump fists and I'm rolling with my boyfriend.....
When the gym is just too damn hot........
When I don't sign up for a tournament and then there is actually someone in my weight class.....
Trying to play it off when someone shushes me during a class and I wasn't the one talking.....
When you see someone who never trains stay for the live rounds.......
When you show someone a technique and the professor comes over to correct it....
When I survive the round with someone who rolls like a dick.....
That face when your professor asks you a question you don't know....
When you answer it correctly.....
When I walk in late and try not to disrupt the class......
Whenever you're out in public with your team mates and you hear the words "Jiu Jitsu"
How poised and lovely I thought I would be meeting Saulo Ribeiro....
Reality......
How I felt afterwards.......